Yesterday, I read a book, inside the book has a beautiful letter.
From a girl who just had her 16 years old birthday~ Below is the letter, read it :D
Dear Future Husband,
I turned sixteen today, and I know it may seem weird writing this to you now,
but this letter is sort of my way of making a promise to you in writing.
Maybe I already know you, or maybe we haven't met yet.
Either way, I want to save myself for you. I want my whole self, my heart and body and everything,
to be a present I'll give you on our wedding day.
I don't care how long it takes or how hard it gets, but I promise you I won't let anybody else "unwrap" me,
so on our wedding night I'll be the kind of gift you'll be happy to receive.
I know I have a lot of years ahead of me before we get married, whoever you are.
That's why I want to make this promise now, so that no matter whom I go out with,
I'll always think of myself as a present I want to give to you alone one day.
I also want to start to pray for you, wherever you are, whoever you are,
that God will be preparing you for me and that you'll save all of yourself for me too.
I already love you.
Your future wife,
Christina Juliet Miller.
The book name is Island Dreamer.
Maybe in this generation, people think that "sex" is some kind of "freedom".
Is that so?
I think that if the man/woman is really love you and worth you to love,
he/she will respect your body, your feeling, your love and you.
So, does he worth? Or does she worth?
I just feel that I need some quiet time,
sometimes I will lost too.
Of all the things that can be stolen from you – your possessions, your
youth, your health, your words, your rights – what no one can ever take
from you is…
1. Your uniqueness.
You are unrepeatable. There is a magic about you that is all your own. Having a low opinion of yourself is not humility, it’s self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not egotism, it’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success. You deserve to wear a smile in your heart. Not because of what you have or what you do, but because of who you are. Yes, you are changing each day, but you are always amazing just as you are.
2. How you feel about yourself.
It takes a long time to learn how to NOT judge yourself through someone else’s eyes, but once you do the world is yours for the taking. We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own life, and we will never be happy or successful if we try to live someone else’s idea of it. So give up worrying too much about what others think of you. What they think isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.
3. Your intuition.
If you’re thinking just like everyone else, you aren’t really thinking. Follow your intuition. Do what makes sense to you. Never compare your journey to someone else’s. Everyone has their own struggles, their own challenges, and a different path that they chose to get to where they are. Remember, you don’t need to wait for external circumstances to perfectly align in order to show up for the life you’ve been dreaming of. What you’re looking for is already somewhere inside you.
如果你的思维方式总是和他人一样，你并没有真正在思考。跟随你的直觉。做那些对你有意义的事情。永远不要把你的生命旅程和别人的比较。 每个人都会遇到自己的困境和挑战，每个人也都会选择不同的道路通向目的地。记住，你没有必要等到万事俱备才去争取你梦想中的生活。你所追寻的东西其实已经 存在你心里的某个地方。
4. Your passion.
If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now. Find your passion, whatever it is. Become it, let it become you, and great things will happen FOR you, TO you, and BECAUSE of you. And even if things don’t work out as planned, you’ll still be heading in the right direction. Because nothing you have passion for is ever a waste of time, no matter how it turns out.
如果有那么一个时刻，你应该追随自己的激情做一些对你重要的事情，那么就是现在了。去发现你所热爱的事情，不论是什么。成为这件事的一 部分，也让这件事成为你生活的一部分，然后美好的事情就会因此降临。即使事情并没有按计划那样进行，你依然朝着正确的方向前进。因为做那些让你毫无激情的 事情就是在浪费时间，不管这些事情能带来什么结果。
When life gives you something that makes you feel afraid, that’s when life gives you a chance to grow strong and be brave. Nothing is permanent in this crazy world, not even your mistakes, failures, or troubles. If you keep your eyes open and your feet moving forward, you’ll eventually find what you need.
6. Your attitude.
Something nobody can take away from you is the way you choose to respond to what others say and do to you. The last of your freedoms is to choose your attitude in any given circumstance. Choose to be happy and positive. It is not always easy to find happiness in ourselves, but it is always impossible to find it elsewhere. Regardless of the situation we face, our attitude is our choice. So smile as you walk away and move on from negative people and their actions.
有一样东西是谁也不能从你身上拿走的，那就是你回应他人对你的所作所为的态度。你最后的一项自由就是选择以何种态度应对周围的环境。让 自己乐观积极一些。在自己身上找到快乐并不总是那么容易，但在别处找到快乐就更不可能。不管我们面对怎样的环境，我们的态度就是我们的选择。所以请远离那 些消极的人和事，微笑着离开。
7. Your ability to spread love and kindness.
The measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give away. And 99 percent of the time you get what you put in, so give freely. Charity can be in the form of a smile, lending an ear or a helping hand. There are many acts of kindness that don’t cost a cent. Remember, the ultimate goal of all goals is to be happy. If you want to be happy make those around you happy.
衡量生命的标准并不是你得到了什么，而是你给予了什么。99%的情况下你付出什么就会收获什么，所以请毫无保留地付出吧。慈善的形式有 很多，可以是展露微笑，侧耳倾听或者伸出援手。有许多善举是不需要花一分钱的。记住，所有目标的终极目标是让人快乐。如果你想要快乐，就让周围的人快乐起 来吧。
It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it. The biggest obstacles that stand between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it, and the faith to believe it’s possible. Hope is the little voice inside your head that whispers “maybe” when it seems like the whole world is shouting “impossible!”
9. Your knowledge and life experiences.
Character and wisdom are sculpted over time. They come with loss, lessons, and triumphs. They come after doubts, second guesses, and unknowns. If there was a definitive path to success, everyone would be on it. The seeds of your success are planted in your past failures. Your best stories will come from overcoming your greatest struggles. Your praises will be birthed from your pains. So keep standing, keep learning, and keep living.
品质和智慧是随时间雕琢而成的。这个过程伴随着失败、教训和成功。你需要经历怀疑、反复猜测和未知才会收获它们。如果有一条明确的道路 通向成功，那就没有人会失败了。成功的种子正是在你过去的失败中播下的。你最棒的经历一定和克服最大的困难有关。你承受的痛苦里将会孕育赞美。所以挺直腰 板，继续学习，继续生活。
10. Your choice to move on emotionally.
Don’t let past relationships and old mistakes ruin your future. Don’t let someone or something that didn’t make it in your life continue to hurt you. If you do, you’re still giving a portion of your life to something that no longer exists – it’s like letting your happiness slip into a black hole. Learn the lesson, release the pain, and move on. Scars remind us of where we have been, not where we are headed.
I just want to thanks again to everyone, special thanks to
(1) my dear parent, my family, my relatives,
(2) my econ seniors ( Jacky Lwee C. J, Terry Foo, Frank Gan andLoi Tick Hong, you guys really make me so touch, because I thought convo normally just junior remember senior~ haha, that why next time i also must take care my juniors :D).
(3) Next, Econ juniors ( I don't want special thanks who
(4) 9th college CC (you all didnt make me hurt, so don't worry, but I think I step on someone, haha, Tsa Aiksi help me ask whether they got hurt or not...so sorry and thanks for throwing me ♥ it~
(5) Chilies and Gardenia family~ (special thanks to my dear husbandAi Huat Wong Han Sian Wong Eu Jean Shuen Li Rong and KC)
(6) PKV ! (Thanks and hope God continue enlarge our territory in UM ya~ hehe)
(7) Debate team~ (Tiong no come I abit sad loh, but what to do, I just half half debate team...haha..thx ya~ and Thx kelvin, seriously thx~)
(8) QB 13谢谢你们的安排和搞笑，hold住姐很感动，但开心比较多，
(9) Thanks to my personal assistant, driver, and camerawomen~ Ty Wong...you are just wonderful~my sister~haha
(10) Thanks Zack for accompany my fren today~ and thx the card too.
(11) Thanks to those who wish me, take photo with me, graduate wit me, sms or fb.
Thanks everyone who send their love to me, seriously thx~ I seriously scared I miss anyone, hope u all just understand ya ~
* I have a blessed convocation, but I need to sleep now because 2mr I still need work~
Those photo I will upload when I free...hope ASAP lah...hahahah....