Jerry是美國一家餐廳的經理，
他總是有好心情，當別人問他最近過得如何，
他總是有好消息可以說，
他總是回答『如果我再過得好一些，我就比雙胞胎還幸運囉！』
當他換工作的時候，
許多服務生都跟著他從這家餐廳換到另一家，
為什麼呢？
因為Jerry是個天生的激勵者，
如果有某位員工今天運氣不好，
Jerry總是適時地告訴那位員工往好的方面想。
看到這樣的情境真的讓我很好奇，
所以有一天我到Jerry那兒問他：
『我不懂沒有人能夠老是那樣地積極樂觀，你是怎麼辦到的？』
Jerry回答：
『每天早上我起來告訴自己，
我今天有兩種選擇，我可以選擇好心情，或者我可以選擇壞心情，
我總是選擇有好心情，
即使有不好的事發生，我可以選擇做個受害者，或是選擇從中學習，
我總是選擇從中學習。
每當有人跑來跟我抱怨，
我可以選擇接受抱怨或者指出生命的光明面，態度。我從他身上學到:
每天你都能選擇享受你的生命，或是憎恨它。
這是唯一一件真正屬於你的權利
我總是選擇生命的光明面。』
『但並不是每件事都那麼容易啊！』我抗議地說
Jerry說：『的確如此，
生命就是一連串的選擇，每個狀況都是一個選擇，
你選擇如何回應，你選擇人們如何影響你的心情，
你選擇處於好心情或是壞心情。你選擇如何過你的生活。』
數年後，我聽到Jerry意外地做了一件你絕想不到的事：
有一天他忘記關上餐廳的後門，
結果早上三個武裝歹徒闖入搶劫，
他們要脅Jerry打開保險箱，
由於過度緊張，
Jerry弄錯了一個號碼，
造成搶匪的驚慌，
開槍射擊Jerry，
幸運地，Jerry很快地被鄰居發現，
緊急送到醫院搶救，
經過18小時的外科 手術，以及密集照顧，
Jerry終於出院了，還有塊子彈留在他身上?
事件發生6個月之後我遇到Jerry，
我問他最近怎麼樣，
他回答：『如果我再過得好一些，我就比雙胞胎還幸運了。要看看我的傷痕嗎？』
我婉拒了，
但我問他當搶匪闖入的時候，他的心路歷程。
Jerry答道：
『我第一件想到的事情是我應該鎖後門的，
當他們擊中我之後，我躺在地板上，
還記得我有2個選擇：
我可以選擇生，或選擇死。
我選擇活下去。』
『你不害怕嗎？』我問他：
Jerry繼續說：
『醫護人員真了不起，他們一直告訴我沒事，放心。
但是當他們將我推入緊急手術間的路上，
我看到醫生跟護士臉上憂慮的神情，
我真的被嚇到了，
他們的眼好像寫著－他已經是個死人了，
我知道我需要採取行動。』
『當時你做了什麼？』我問：
Jerry說：
『嗯！當時有個碩大的護士用吼叫的音量問我一個問題，
她問我是否會對什麼東西過敏。
我回答：『有』。
這時醫生跟護士都停下來等待我的回答。
我深深地吸了一口氣喊著：『子彈！』
聽他們笑完之後，
我告訴他們：『我現在選擇活下去，
請把我當作一個活生生的人來開刀，不是一個活死人。』
Jerry能活下去當然要歸功於醫生的精湛醫術，
但同時也由於他令人驚異的
沒有人能夠控制或奪去的東西～就是你的態度。
如果你能時時注意這件事實，
你生命中的其他事情都會變得容易許多。
It is a special experience for me.
In UM, we vote for the MPMUM,
there are two parties- pro-mahasiswa(student) and pro-A...(sch).
Two of my debate team members is the calon of this MPMUM,
one is fight for umum, but another one is from faculty engineering.
So, i am going to support them.
IF you see the situation in the school, you may get shock too... :P
Quite like this kind of activity,
when you having your class, those calon will come in and shout,
ask you vote for them...and there is a lot paper sticking around the school.
At night, they also will come to your cafe~~
but, at last, pro-M lose the fight 18-21 (+2 independent still lose).
Nevermind, fight next time. FOR THE STUDENT!!!
congrats to the school, hope you all really will carry out your duties well~~~
:D From a first time participant in e-voting :D
Today I went pasar malam with my friends (pooi kia, ah chong, wen wen, and harwaii)
When we went back to college, a police blocked us because of the car light not function properly.
So we ask the police for a chance.
The police said “kamu salah, macam mana?”
He kept on said “macam mana?”
We were thinking he wants corruption.
Actually we really don’t know the light didn’t function.
~I was praying~
So when our driver wanted to give him RM 20.
He asked us to keep it and let us go.
Praise God. God did miracle.
Today is consider free,
because tomorrow got activity so today can't go home,
then today also no class...
that why i am typing blog...hehe
next is my assignment also nearly finish.....
hope can get a good marks....
is my first presentation in UM!!! political science.
Yesterday night, went for PTUM practice,
didn't dance well, others can dance very good,
but i did not sad, because i really cant dance mah...hehe
Yesterday 12 am, went to KFC near my college,
celebrate Jeffred 20th birthday...
wah, really syok and sot...hehe
I think next time the KFC wont let us go in...
Happy birthday ya.
TOday, when i opened mail,
saw a message from facebook,
MATTHEW SAMUEL added you as a friend,
really suprise loh,
i thought the person already dissapear from my life,
what is my reaction? erm...can't describe....still have a bit 心动。
Okay, that's all...bye.
~EvELyn~
The week before I entered UM,
nearly everyday sleep late, or wake up early…
Haha…maybe to happy….
First day enter UM already very syok….
A lot leng zhai at there…hahaha
Okoklah…haha ….because mine comment about them also wrote them very “handsome”…
There were 25 pembantu mahasiswa “take care” or shout at us, whole week…
And we cheated by them whole week….
They introduced themselves,
Said they doing medic, law, pengajian tentera…what major in sakit puan, minor in peranakan, bahasa haiwan…..LOL LOL LOL ….and we trust them whole week….
Actually a lot of them just from faculty economic…
But is fun…haha
Some of them name also changed…used father, grandfather name…what kind of thing also got…haha
Besides that, we learn many cheers, to fight with others college…mainly attack fifth college…I also don’t understand why…
Ya, forget to say…I FROM NINE COLLEGE!!! NINE IS THE BEST!!!
On the other hand, we had activities such as sport and kesenian…
Our group won in volleyball (girl), netball (girl) and basketball (boy)…
Kesenian won by other group ….. India dance…. That taught by PM Yuh…a super cute PM…haha
All PM is very care bout us…nearly everyday ask…ADA YANG SAKIT??? Hehe…thanks PM-PM
And…one last thing, if you can use fork and spoon to eat your food, you are super lucky…
Because we have to use our hand to eat our meal….special experience...
I started my university life with a very interesting week…
Hope it can continue….
That’s all from me, Evelyn, thank you.
~eveLyN~
幸福不是理所当然。
所以当幸福降临时，请好好珍惜。
从小，就有一个奇怪的梦想，
就是希望要进马来亚大学，
问我那大学很好吗？不知道。。。
就只是单纯的希望。。。
每次大考，都希望拿到full A，
结果都是失望的领取成绩，
总告诉自己，神会安排他美好的旨意在我身上，
现在我相信了，神真的时时刻刻在我身旁，
帮助我，保护我，爱我。。。
如果不是以前的失败，可能我早就放弃，或早就满足了。。。
已不会继续努力了。。。
所以，我深深相信，美好的安排就在神的手里。
才让我如愿进入马大啊！！！
还是得到第一选择leh…
~eveLyn~
Dear,
Finally I get into University Malaya,
My dream comes true.
I am very happy that God heard my prayer.
How are you? Are you fine?
Are you doing well?
Quite miss you leh… hehe
Your birthday is coming soon….
How are you going to celebrate?
I think your family and your friends will celebrate with you…
18 years old birthday woh….hehe
GAMbateh!!! Lah!!!
UM,I am coming….
Dream come true....
